By Mel Robbins

“The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About” is a transformative self-help book co-authored by Mel Robbins and her daughter, Sawyer Robbins. Published on December 24, 2024, this work introduces readers to a profound yet straightforward philosophy aimed at enhancing personal freedom, reducing stress, and fostering healthier relationships. At its core, the “Let Them” theory encourages individuals to relinquish the futile endeavor of controlling others’ actions, thoughts, and feelings, and instead, focus on their own responses and personal growth.​

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