Emotional Intelligence Series

Emotional intelligence (EQ) is a hot topic these days. Whether you’re at work, at home, or just navigating daily life, having a high EQ can make all the difference. But let’s face it, developing and applying emotional intelligence is not as straightforward as it sounds. Many people make mistakes without even realizing it, and these missteps can hinder personal growth and relationships. Here’s a closer look at the 12 biggest mistakes people make with emotional intelligence, and how to avoid them.

No. 1 — Confusing Emotional Intelligence with Agreeableness

A common misconception is that being emotionally intelligent means always being agreeable and nice. While kindness is a component of EQ, it’s not about being a pushover. Emotional intelligence involves understanding and managing your emotions and those of others, which sometimes means setting boundaries and having tough conversations.

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